In par with men ................

The title may make me sound a bit like female chauvinist but didn't mean it that way. How is that men are considered a level higher? What could be the reason when both are reared by a woman ... Mother?
Every individual is unique - genetically, physically and mentally. ? Based on the largest number of differences possible , we classify humans in to men and women. Coming to the point - Are women a level lower than Men? or Is it our perception that makes us think so? or Is it our misconception? I don't want to know or neither do I have any interest in proving who is stronger or who is the mightiest !!! Why are women interested in being in par with men when they don't have anything in common? Is it because we are termed weaker sex by those group of people who don't know whether they are strong or weak?
We women tend to think emotionally rather than rationally that's what makes this concept of weaker sex interesting for men. We have become "weaker sex" of the society by accepting the term wholeheartedly more than being imposed by men.
A way to a man's heart is through his stomach. Yes of course, that goes true for woman as well. But who is more bothered about it, its a woman. So dutifully, men have handed over the kitchen job to women. I can't blame them.
Every person we meet , everything we do, every day, every minute we deal it emotionally. That is the difference , that's what makes us special!!! A woman adds a sense of emotion to what ever she does, that makes her vulnerable to attacks. Women like drama - no wonder mega serials are becoming more unrealistic and melodramatic.
We are different!!! We are not men , we are women. Then what is the point in comparing and grading women against men. We are incomplete without them and men cannot live on this planet with out women. 'Men are from Mars Women are from Venus' .'Men can't pack Women can't park'. Ecological balance!!!!
Its all in the thought. We are in a global village. Come out of your kitchen and meal menus. Just peep through the window of your room, you will feel the difference. Don't blame men for not giving you opportunity. Are they God? Take life in your hands. Stop whining. Look out for opportunities. Last but not least think rationally. A bit of rational thinking will make life lot more easier for you and for others around you!
Woman is a colourful creature of God with a variety. A multi tasker with 100% efficiency. It is a woman who gives birth. If you think men are superior then think of the woman who gave birth to him. She should be far more superior.
Being in par with men..... Sorry I am not interested.....I think women have crossed that level..................:)

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