Love is in the air.......

The most precious gift you can give to the one you love is your true presence.

 “Dear one, I am here for you.”

Do you have enough time to love? Can you make sure that in your everyday life you have a little time to love? We do not have much time together; we are too busy. In the morning while eating breakfast, we do not look at the person we love, we do not have enough time for it. We eat very quickly while thinking about other things, and sometimes we even hold a newspaper (iphone) that hides the face of the person we love. In the evening when we come home, we are too tired to be able to look at the person we love.We must bring about a revolution in our way of living our everyday lives, because our happiness, our lives, are within ourselves.

When you are really there, you have the ability to recognize the presence of the other. To be there is the first step, and recognizing the presence of the other is the second step. To love is to recognize; to be loved is to be recognized by the other.

“Dear one, I know that you are here, and it makes me very happy.” 

 If you love someone and you continue to ignore his or her presence, this is not true love. Perhaps your intention is not to ignore this person, but the way you act, look, and speak does not manifest the desire to recognize the presence of the other. When we are loved, we wish the other to recognize our presence.
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From "True Love" by Thich Nhat Hanh.





Enjoy the season of love ...




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